None of us likes the word ‘breakup’. It leads some to depressive tendencies or also has the power to make you a better person than you were before.
When two people break up it might get difficult with the time, chances are you will miss them, you will have bouts of anger, hunger all at the same time but if you take the stride in your favour, it may change your whole life in a much better way.
If you're already there, they can put an extra feather in your cap. Here is how you get the chance to see yourself in a new light post break-up:
1.It makes you fearless
For some it fills you with extreme courage and dissipates your fear that you may have earlier. Sometimes you also become wiser than you were before, you may learn it the hard way but that’s how life teaches you lessons. You will start feeling fearless because a sense of self-worth surrounds you, as you have dropped the one who didn’t quite value as a person in their life.
2.It lets you work on yourself
You are single again! You can now take the stock of the situation and work on the areas that need attention. It may be your health, fitness, mental peace or anything under the sun. Basically, you can pursue those kept under the shelf hobbies that you had no time for, because you busy sobbing!
3.You will be stress free
Once you are out of that relationship, no more sobbing, no more feeling blue, no more tensions, in short a stress free life. Though you have come out of a big storm but that shouldn’t curb your mental peace. You will have plenty of time for yourself, your good friends and much more that you would love to resume after a long time.
4.It makes room for something better
Once you are out of it, you have already raised your standards, in terms of brains, class and everything. You are not a toy who somebody could play with. You are no more weeping in solitude. Coming out of that phase will make room for other good things in life.
5.It makes you a better person
You are wiser now, independent minded, you have no insecurities when it comes to partners. You wont be churning with angry thoughts about taking some revenge or refuting your partner by catching them red-handed. No more dramas, no more crying! You are a better person now who loves peace more than anything else.