When you are in a new relationship, there are many things you and your partner don’t reveal to each other. That is true for both men and women. An ideal relationship entails that there is transparency where problems, feelings and secrets, in particular, are shared.
Being open definitely, does ensure that the relationship sustains and is long lasting. But as we all agree, it is these very feelings and secrets that can cause many problems and obstacles in a relationship.
In fact, although it is necessary to be open, not revealing a few things actually helps. It helps in preventing unnecessary arguments and quarrels.
This is exactly why certain mature people opt not to disclose everything to their partners. Especially if your partner is easily upset it is suggested that you do not share every tiny detail about your life.
In this article, we look at things you should hide from your partner.
Here are 8 things you definitely shouldn’t reveal to your partner. Read on…
Your Salary: An ideal relationship that is healthy will definitely involve sharing of financial details and earnings. However, this may not be exactly true in every case, as sharing your salary can be unfavorable in certain cases and is mostly true in the case of women. For example, if you are a woman and you earn more than your man, it can be a troublesome situation. Money sure can be a major problem, honey!
Your Face book Password: This is definitely one of the many things you should preferably hide from your partner. Wouldn't you want your partner to know the people you’ve been speaking to and create unnecessary misunderstandings do you?
The Daily Worries: Make sure you don’t talk about and revel in your daily frustrations and worries, for the topic can be excruciatingly boring and irritating for your partner. You may feel like sharing them sometimes and it is also important to do so. But not all the time, certainly not!
Your Impractical Expectations: Every body is bound to have some expectations from their partners when in a relationship- some practical, some impractical and far-fetched. Make sure you don’t make them feel wanting as far as your impractical and unrealistic expectations are concerned- something you shouldn’t reveal to your partner. Make them feel good about themselves as they are and accept them for what they are. It will inevitably make you feel good too.
Your Secret Crush and Admirations: This is something your partner would definitely not want to know! Keep your secret admirations for another person to yourself and within limits before your partner! Do not go about revealing too much to your partner.
If You Dislike a Member in Their Family: If you are contemplating being together, even if you strongly dislike somebody in their family, telling them about it casually is okay. But make sure you do not nag your partner about the person and carry your dislike into your relationship as well. Do not take it too far; it’s well, not advisable.
Your Past: Past relationships? Well, a strict no no. It’s best to leave your past behind and forget about it when in a relationship. What would be more damaging to your relationship is if you make even the slightest comparison be it knowingly or unknowingly about your exes or relationships in the past.
What You Reveal to Your Best Friend: Best friends stay forever, whether you are in a relationship or not. Never make the mistake of telling your partner secrets you would reveal only to your best friend. There are certain things only your best friend will know and you should remember this very valuable relationship tip.